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The person I ended up with was not the person I originally met. I knew how much I had to give and how much I wanted to receive." Earlier that year, she began dating Cook, an equestrian—and that time, she took her time. "I had to go through a lot of things, but it brought me to Karl."Cook proposed to Cuoco on Nov. We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment–the most advanced relationship science to date–can help us find and sustain love.Is there a scientific explanation for why some relationships sail smoothly along while others are more like a storm tossed voyage? Attachment research designates three main "attachment styles," or manners in which people perceive and respond to intimacy in romantic relationships.Understanding your own attachment style and that of you partner or prospective partner can radically change the way you perceive yourself, your partner and your relationship.For more details see "What Attachment Theory Can Teach about Love and Relationships", the cover story of the January/February 2011 issue of Scientific American Mind.