Still, as hard as it might be, the one of the most important tasks for any “recovering” person has before them is to end the destructive cycle of self-doubt and blame.
Some folks have a lot of anger to deal with after their abusive relationship is finally over.
Everything you thought you knew about your wife, marriage – hell, about LIFE itself – it’s all up in the air. It’s the most F*CKED UP you’ve ever been in your entire life… The problem comes when we start making DECISIONS during this time when we’re all screwed up. Decisions like starting to drink more than you normally do. Instead, you’ll make decisions when you’re back on solid ground in your inner world… So let me know you read this – hell, I DARE you – and comment below. I just wanted to thank you for putting that on the internet.
When most guys find out, their emotions are all over the place. Hell, how could we not be screwed up on the inside when going through this? Even decisions about whether or how to win back your wife after an affair. It’s easy to get sucked into seeing the world through the emotionally-charged “lens” we wear when you find out your wife cheated. When you do, you’ll avoid turning your wife’s affair into an event that causes your entire life to go into a tailspin (which is what happens to too many guys). So right now, take 10 seconds and say to yourself, “I might be emotionally jacked up right now, so I commit to myself to do the thing a mature man would do… Listen, I put up this blog to help guys like us who are going through infidelity in our marriages.
Phnom Penh has one of the most bizarre and interesting nightlife in Asia.
In terms of development, the city is still far behind Bangkok, Saigon, Jakarta or Manila: There are almost no skyscrapers, few modern malls, fewer cars, etc.
The level of English is good so you can communicate easily with most people unlike in Vietnam.
Besides, it’s relatively pointless to play the self-blame game.
Lovingly reckoning with your vulnerabilities and vowing to become a stronger, better person in the aftermath of a troubled relationship is one thing, but doing an emotional hatchet-job on yourself just because you happened to fall prey to a good con artist is quite another.
And I’ll be having some more to say on this topic in the coming weeks.
Your Wife Cheated – Here’s a Common But Deadly Mistake To Avoid… I feel better and I know I have a roller coaster ride though hell.