Just talk with them and get some guys interested in you. I hope this article helped you better understand how to get out of the friend zone with a guy. There is one defining moment in every relationship that determines if it will last, or if you will be left heartbroken…Who knows, you might even end up meeting a better guy in the process. cause it won’t work if you only did the parts you wanted to do and ignored the rest. But assuming that you: 1) Really, truly accepted being just friends 2) Maximized your look so that you’re now a smoking hot mama 3) Racked up a whole bunch of potential guys who are interested in you It’s time to pull the trigger. At some point, he will ask himself: Is this the woman I want to commit myself to?Letting go and just being friends can be something you just do silently within yourself. What I mean is don’t talk like you’re just friends, but then in your mind plan your wedding day and the love story that led to it.It doesn’t need to be a talk or event – you just simply decide you’re going to shift your attention onto appreciating him for who he is and the fact that you have someone who you enjoy having in your life. RECOMMENDED QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life? I remember back in high school when I had a devastating crush on my best female friend. Don’t cry and moan to your friends about how it’s not fair and how it shouldn’t be this way. It’s not easy, but if you can’t truly do this, you can kiss your chances of getting out of the friend zone goodbye. So now that you’re just friends and you’re cool with it, it’s time for a personal reinvention. I know some of you in the audience are about to throw something at me and scream, “Why should **I** have to change for him? I’m not changing for anyone, that’s so desperate and lame.” OK, fine. But this article is called “How to Get Out of the Friend Zone” and not “How to Do Everything You’ve Been Doing All Along and Magically Get Different Results.” See my point?MORE: 5 Things That Turn Men Off to Relationships Hollywood loves to spread this idea that if someone rejects you, you should just push harder and harder and harder and suddenly, some magic event will happen and you’ll end up together. It’s better I give you a straight-up reality check because reality can be pretty cold when it comes to this kind of thing.The good news is that there’s a way to avoid this and possibly turn things around. Not in a dramatic, mean-spirited or punishing sort of way. I have to imagine the sting is just as bad for a girl when she hears that message from a guy friend she has feelings for. Well, even if your guy isn’t “damaged goods,” I hope you read the last section because backing off is a truly be OK with being just friends right now.
It can actually be one of the greatest lessons to learn to truly let a crush go and accept just being friends. And it also gives the other person the psychological “space” to possibly grow feelings for you at some point down the line. When I finally spilled my guts about my feelings for her, she said she just didn’t have “those kind of feelings” for me. MORE: How to Get Over a Guy That Doesn’t Like You It might be tough, but if you add gravity to the situation or romanticize it or dramatize it, it will be 100 times tougher.
This can happen for a few reasons: 1) The new girl he jumps in with completely takes him out of that “mode” or “funk” he was caught up in.
See, while you were listening to him sulk about his broken heart and smoothing his hair, new girl appeared out of nowhere as a limited-edition item. But the new girl who just entered the picture is completely fresh – he can act like whomever he wants to appear to be and she’ll accept that that’s who he is.
If you want this guy and want a different result than what you’re getting, it’s clear that you need to change what you’ve been doing.
That may be hard to swallow, but when you think it through it’s pretty clear. However, the fact that you’re reading this tells me that you probably have already tried that or you’ve looked and there’s nobody else who’s impressed you as much as this one guy.